DIVORCE SUCKS!

Hey, it's Marco! Divorce, break-ups, separation...they all suck ass! I know. Being insecure and highly under educated, I blew a marriage years ago! I'm okay...She's fine, but the children suffer. Bring in a new spouse, new outlaws, er, inlaws and if the communication is not there, if agreements aren't met, when there is jealousy, anger, BIG EGOS, attorneys, fights over custody and child support, you'll have a recipe for disaster and everyone involved loses! What's better? To be right, or to be kind? Life is way too short for all the hate! The hate tends to compound, words are exchanged, (bad words) and life can be miserable for all parties involved! Let's just say that GOD came down to visit. How would everyone react or respond then? You think a little more LOVE might be involved? Absolutely! Then why I ask, can't people put their egos aside and spread the love? Where there is love, there is happiness! And where there is happiness, there is Family! Do yourself a favor, if you truly believe your marriage is worth saving, then by all means, please do everything you can to save your marriage! No one is perfect. Understand your spouse, walk in their shoes, remember, In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love - because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. Try it again for the second time!

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